The Illusion of Exception
Everyone thinks they’re smart.
Everyone thinks they’re reasonable.
Everyone thinks they understand.
And everyone thinks they’re not like everyone else.
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Confidence in the Crowd
This is the gospel of modern selfhood.
We scroll, swipe, and opine—sure that we see more clearly than the person next to us.
We scoff at the crowd’s ignorance—while standing in it.
We believe we’re the few… but we think like the many.
It’s a quiet kind of arrogance.
Not loud or boastful, but woven into the fabric of how we interpret reality.
We assume our thoughts are original, our insights uncommon.
We think we’ve escaped the algorithm, seen through the propaganda, resisted the manipulation.
No lie is more seductive than the one that flatters your resistance to it.
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The Dream’s Architecture
Every mind is convinced it’s awake—
But what if that’s just the dream?
What if you’re not the observer, but the observed pattern?
The dream is seductive.
It tells you that your feelings are facts, your perspective is clarity, your judgment is sound.
It flatters you into thinking your cynicism is wisdom
and your preferences are principles.
And here’s the twist:
The more convinced we are of our individual insight,
the easier we are to predict.
Certainty is cheap.
Everyone’s got it.
Truth is expensive—
It costs your pride.
As the Dunning-Kruger effect suggests, it’s not stupidity that blinds us—
It’s confidence.
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This Isn’t an Alarm Clock
This won’t wake you up.
It isn’t supposed to.
It’s meant to trouble the part of you that thinks it’s already alert.
We live in a time where the line between confidence and delusion has evaporated.
People mistake self-expression for truth, and groupthink for morality.
- We say “I did my research” when we mean “I watched someone confirm my beliefs.”
- We say “I know myself” when we’ve never sat still long enough to meet the stranger inside.
If I had a microphone loud enough to reach the entire world and asked,
“Who here is blissfully ignorant?”—
You’d hear nothing but crickets.
Because, of course, ignorance is always someone else’s problem.
Meanwhile, the daily news plays like a blooper reel of human thought—
Proof that while no one claims the title,
the world is overflowing with qualified applicants.
Psychologists David Dunning and Justin Kruger put this phenomenon to the test in 1999.
They found that the least competent participants consistently overestimated their abilities—
not because they were lying, but because they lacked the very knowledge needed to recognize their own incompetence.
The irony?
The worse you are at something, the less equipped you are to know it.
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The Doubt You Haven’t Tried
It’s not enough to doubt the world.
You have to doubt the part of you that claims to have escaped it.
That’s the real work.
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The Mirror in the Mob
So next time you’re sure you see the truth, ask:
Who handed me this lens?
Next time you’re nodding along, ask:
Is this agreement or hypnosis?
Next time you feel righteous, ask:
Am I awake—or just dreaming of waking up?
Because maybe the crowd doesn’t look like a crowd when you’re standing in it.
And maybe the people who are truly awake… sound a lot more like they’re still searching.
After all, the deepest dreams never feel like dreams.
They feel like insight.
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